The First Post ...

Where will 'it' go from here?

Since this is coming to you from Philadelphia, I picked a 'colonial' look for this blog.

(What kind of word is 'blog' anyway? Couldn't we come up with something a little more pleasing to the ear?)

'It' ... what kind of a word is 'it'?

Well that is what this will be about ... It ... whatever it is.

My life is very interesting, much of it I wish was happening to someone else, but none the less all very interesting.

In many ways I am richly blessed, but I am also forced to deal with intense custody litigation over what is best for my 32 month old son Zane.

It is like living a nightmare ... how could a women who wanted to be with me so much that she created a child with me now think of me as so 'evil' ... if anything I am a better man than I was in '01, but she certainly doesn't see it that way.

Never in my life have I gone so from one total extreme to the other as has mother of my child ... it hard for me to understand how anyone can do it. Many times I have held out the 'olive branch' to her only to have it slapped away.

The story of how I ever got involved in such a struggle is in of itself a tragedy, but Zane is a great boy, I love him very much and we have some great times together ... look for pictures on the way.

His mother is trying to portray me as someone who is 'mentally ill' ... mmm what is that is said about people who live in glass house and throwing stones?

This on-line version of my life may have to be somewhat reserved ... you'll have to read the book for the unabridged version, (I'm hoping it'll be out in '08 ... who knows?) I think you might find it interesting and in some ways relate to it?

Always happy to hear from you ...

Well that is a start ... got to be back to forecast, its a rainy, cold night in Philadelphia.